"Tax Payers shouldn't be forced to pay for things they find morally disagreeable"

This is the stupidest line I've heard by far about people who don't agree with abortion. Abortion is the women's choice and shouldn't and won't be forced to do anything she doesn't want to unless abortion becomes illegal but fortunately that won't be happening anytime soon.

There are so many thing that we as tax payers pay for that we don't want to abortion being included. However I have no problem with helping fund things that need help being funded whether it’s to fix roads, helping donate money to charities, helping a homeless person on the street, abortions for mothers who can't afford it and would definitely be much worse off with a mother who is not right in the head, can't afford the child, or lives in an unfit environment for a child.

It's completely unfair for a child to have to suffer just because of the parents that had them. Parents can't and don't always make the best decisions but having an abortion when you know you're not ready is one of those cases that women have to use their best judgement.

The tax payers that are complaining about the money being "wasted" are the same payers that will complain about having to help fund welfare programs; child assistance, food assistance, housing, and many other resources that don't just get help from thin air. Our country should be working towards bettering themselves and helping others to better themselves. The more people we have on the streets or kids in foster care the more money that has to be circulated to be spread around to help fund. If we help before the problems get worse or out of hand then we will have less things to deal with.

Abortion will never become illegal in this country simply because the amount of people there are, the amount of people that get pregnant and the amount of people that need help later on down the line are extremely high. If you try to contain and balance of the people that are wanting to get abortions then you will benefit later on.

It's reoccurring circle that has to be kept around as a safety net for this country. It's horrifying but it has to be an option so that we don't get ourselves more in debt than we already are and don't have people making bad decisions for children they can't take care of or decisions for themselves knowing the main person who will suffer is the child.

It's never fun to have to pay for someone else’s mistakes; as a parent I can relate. It's never fun to have to pick up the slack of someone else who keeps making the same mistake that knows they’re supposed to be doing better. It's never fun to have to baby someone because they want to be irresponsible. So the solution is to continue to help with paying for abortions and other resources that people need help with. Abortion in this country is the worst of our worries especially since the only person that will REALLY be affected is the person that is doing it. The people who are helping fund it are getting their money's worth when they're giving her the option of not bringing another child into the world that the rest of the state or country has to help take care of. It's the harsh reality of this reoccurring circle.

If a women is willing to...

Most people say, "If a women is willing to have sex she's knowingly taking the risk of getting pregnant and should be responsible for actions". I do agree that most women in our country specifically know what they are getting themselves into when they are choosing to have sex with a man whether out of pity, spite, or pure lust and love. Either way most women know the reprecautions of their actions and yet they still take part in the action. Hoping to beat the odds of getting pregnant. I am one of those women and still am currently  one of these women. I do have a child that is one years old and her father and I dont' always take the right steps to avoid another pregnancy. However when makin rash decisions or even conscouis ones no one thinks of the bad consequences we just do what we feel is fine for the moment and then deal with the rest later on when it comes back to bite us.

In this case I think women including myself should take better care of our bodies and make wiser decisions. Setting examples for our children as well as making sure the bad decisions don't hurt us in the long run.

Our health is more important than an hour or a few minutes of pleasure from our partner. We should treat our bodies as temples and take better care of ourselves. Things such as going to the doctors when things don't feel right, keeping up with our hygiene, making sure we take regular trips to the doctors that way when things don't go right were not stuck with not knowing what to do and then the problem worsens.

Contraception isn't fun because "it takes away the feeling", "it doesn't feel the same". Well neither does having to deal with the stress of having multiple kids back to back and having to provide for them. Or the womens health being affected because she didn't wait her full 6 weeks and got pregnant again before she was completely internally healed. Which in fact women are not completely healed after 6 weeks its just okay for women to participate in certain activities such as sex around that time.

Women should be responsible for their actions correct, however abortions are not only costly but they're unsafe as well. But raising a child when one is not ready isn't safe or responsible either. So at some point women need to draw the line. Use conception and lessen the chances of getting pregnant once or multiple times or get their tubes tied. Or have sex unprotected and risk getting pregnant and even catching an STD or STI and having to be responsible for another human whether ready at the moment or not; and eventually deciding to have an abortion because they weren't ready,

Abortion can be traumatizing to women and even take a tole on a man's emotions as well. Constantly getting them before you're ready to handle the responsibility hurts your chances of later wanting to have kids and could cause you to become infertile.


Women need to think hard and long before making a choice to have sex with someone who isn't financially stable, responsible and caring as well as thinking about their own situation as well.