Most people say, "If a women is willing to have sex she's knowingly taking the risk of getting pregnant and should be responsible for actions". I do agree that most women in our country specifically know what they are getting themselves into when they are choosing to have sex with a man whether out of pity, spite, or pure lust and love. Either way most women know the reprecautions of their actions and yet they still take part in the action. Hoping to beat the odds of getting pregnant. I am one of those women and still am currently one of these women. I do have a child that is one years old and her father and I dont' always take the right steps to avoid another pregnancy. However when makin rash decisions or even conscouis ones no one thinks of the bad consequences we just do what we feel is fine for the moment and then deal with the rest later on when it comes back to bite us.
In this case I think women including myself should take better care of our bodies and make wiser decisions. Setting examples for our children as well as making sure the bad decisions don't hurt us in the long run.
Our health is more important than an hour or a few minutes of pleasure from our partner. We should treat our bodies as temples and take better care of ourselves. Things such as going to the doctors when things don't feel right, keeping up with our hygiene, making sure we take regular trips to the doctors that way when things don't go right were not stuck with not knowing what to do and then the problem worsens.
Contraception isn't fun because "it takes away the feeling", "it doesn't feel the same". Well neither does having to deal with the stress of having multiple kids back to back and having to provide for them. Or the womens health being affected because she didn't wait her full 6 weeks and got pregnant again before she was completely internally healed. Which in fact women are not completely healed after 6 weeks its just okay for women to participate in certain activities such as sex around that time.
Women should be responsible for their actions correct, however abortions are not only costly but they're unsafe as well. But raising a child when one is not ready isn't safe or responsible either. So at some point women need to draw the line. Use conception and lessen the chances of getting pregnant once or multiple times or get their tubes tied. Or have sex unprotected and risk getting pregnant and even catching an STD or STI and having to be responsible for another human whether ready at the moment or not; and eventually deciding to have an abortion because they weren't ready,
Abortion can be traumatizing to women and even take a tole on a man's emotions as well. Constantly getting them before you're ready to handle the responsibility hurts your chances of later wanting to have kids and could cause you to become infertile.
Women need to think hard and long before making a choice to have sex with someone who isn't financially stable, responsible and caring as well as thinking about their own situation as well.
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